So I served for two years as a missionary of The Church of Jesus Christ of LDS and I came home. Completely single!
So I dated a few wonderful women. I landed another job in the oil field and had the goal to save enough that I could acquire some basic things that my future wife and I could enjoy while we were a poor and destitute newly married couple, as I assumed we would. (It was never my intention to continue in the oil field only because of the fact that I would often be away from my someday family, but for the meantime it was a wonderful way to earn some money and I really enjoyed the work!) I was working 24 days and then I would have 4 days off. During those four days I would return from the north and be hanging out at the padres. One morning I was on the computer and again like before and being bored I threw LDS back into the search engine. Also like before I saw the LDS site, the nostalgia made me try my old username. Since I always used the same password and username it was fairly easy to remember (for those who are wondering about how I could’ve possibly signed in after two years). GUESS WHAT!? It was still active! I also had about 400 emails from people wanting to talk to me or whatever they do on those things. So for the next while I went through all those, figured out how to email people and I even emailed a few ladies that I thought seemed interesting. It was fun because I could be at work and still could have some interaction with someone outside of work. I feel I should mention as well that I had some pretty strict rules for myself about anyone from “online”, some of which were, I would never have more contact then through email, we would never “meet” because it was weird, and the most that could happen as far as a relationship was concerned was friends only. I had a woman that would email me often and we’d talk about whatever and she was fun. She kept telling me to join a different LDS singles site, LDSLinkup. Apparently it was superior in some way. After about 2 months of her trying to pressure me into it I said, “Meh, why not.” So as most people do, I set out to check out the features of this new site I had joined.
Little did I know that this decision would ultimately change the course of my life … for the BEST!